In my life I feel like I have been hit by a Bus. I have been through Hell and back with My Ex-Wife. The things she trys to tell others about our kids, my wife and myself to make herself look good. Does anyone know what I am talking about.
She would go to the extent to make up any story she could to gain financial help from others, threats to me and my family, court costs, she herself doesn't have to pay. For others out there who have dealt with that kind of pain know exactly where I am coming from.
The pain and agony (MY EX) has caused to our family, has been heart breaking, she will go into court and cry out and then give us a glare and throw threats towards us when no one is watching. She has gone to the extent to say in court that she wishes I was dead and if she could get away with it she would kill me in front of a judge and Sheriff and still walk out of the court room with no repercussions. She has threatened to burn our house down with the rest of the family and take my two kids that I have custody of and run with them. She has driven by our house even after a court order states she can't and she uses others vehicles so she doesn't get caught.
She even texted threats to our phone, we showed the Police and they said that they couldn't do anything about it. How many threats does it take before they take a looney like her and lock her away. They wonder why so many people end up dead, or their kids kidnapped, all because the Judges ignore it. She even failed a Phyc evaluation and still got to visit the kids. See how our system works.
Now if a guy did all this they would have him locked up forever, but if a woman does this, depending on who she is they let her walk. Some woman are crazy as well as men. My point here is this. A lot of woman walk away without paying the price through the courts, while a man has to suffer and not have a life and be afraid for his kids and families lives all because of a fake cry to get away with what she wants, and it never stops there, she just keeps going and going.
At this point you may be asking why I am writing about this. I am writing a blog about all my experiences with my Ex, the court system, HHS, police officers, Attorneys, Private Investigators, I don't want others to have to go through what me, my wife and children have had to go through. We have not lived a life at all.
My Ex still walks the street, disobeys court orders, tries to skip paying Child Support, threatens, tries to get our income tax due to medical reasons. That is the kind of parent that a kid wants to run and hide from. My children have been told to disobey us when they had visits, told not to do their schoolwork, threaten us, do what it takes so she could have them.
With all the things My Ex has pulled she seems to still have pull with the system. As I go on I will tell you more and more without using names of anyone so I can't be held liable. As you read my stories you are going to wonder why My Ex has gotten away with so much, how the system works and so on.
I hope to catch others attention to this as I want to start a non-profit organization at some point. I want laws to change, others to get more involved and stop being scared. I want people to open up their eyes and realize we are the ones who pay the courts, judges, lawyers, HHS, county, and so on. We make up jobs and pay wages for idiotic things that could be avoided or checked into. We are creating jobs, hurting families, making families go through things they shouldn't just to make a BUCK for the system.
I hope that one day my kids look at these stories and say, my Dad had courage to stand up and let people know what happens and show he's not afraid. I want them to know that they need to fight for their rights as people too and never to give up, no matter who you make mad or whose toes you step on as long as you are being honest about it.
It takes courage to come forth and let people know that this stuff with the law and system is not right and we need to do something about it. There are innocent children and parents being accused or put through the system all because things were not properly investigated or checked into. But in AMERICA it isn't AMERICA anymore because we are all guilty until proven innocent on any standard level with the state, police, judges, lawyers, HHS and so on. As long as you are guilty in their eyes and they think they can get away with something, they will if you don't fight them back.
I won't quit, no matter what because justice needs to be done with these kind of cases not just swept under the rugs and let go. I want others comments as I keep talking about this. I want others to leave their stories, on the blog and even e-mail them to me. I want justice to be dealt with in AMERICA the Right way.
Bob Judd
2-9-2012
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